In order to reduce worry,it is necessary to understand the subconscious psychological "payoffs" for choosing to worry in the first place. "I can't do a thing.I'm too worried about..." This is a common lament,and one with a payoff that keeps you standing still and avoiding the risk of action. Clearly, it is easier, if less rewarding, to worry than to be an active, involved person.
熱心網友
為了減少顧慮,有必要了解人們不自覺地在心理把顧慮放在第一位的結果。“我不能做這件事呀,我太多顧慮太多擔心了……”這是一個很普遍的調調,這個調調的結果就是讓你無動于衷而拒絕承擔其風險。很明顯,這樣簡單些,如果回報比較少,那么還是擔心多過行動來的實際,包括人。
熱心網友
為了能減少擔憂,首先,了解在選擇了擔憂后會產生的潛意識的心理后果是必要的。“我什么都做不來。我對于。。。太擔憂了。”這是常見的抱怨,它還會帶來一個后果,就是讓你站住,不前進, 不涉險。很明顯,雖說不做就不能得到報酬了,僅僅擔憂還是比動手去做要簡單輕松的多。