我和他認識快三個月了.我們以前分別都曾有過幾年婚姻史.各自帶一個小孩.他正直,有品味,顧家.但工作極忙,且有巨大的工作壓力.我也是大學畢業,有一份還不錯的工作.他希望他的妻子不工作,全身心的照顧家庭和孩子,且疼他照顧他如寶貝.他說:"你不會做飯,又不愛聞油煙味,自已的孩子都由你父母帶,今后你做一頓飯可以,一直做下去你能行嗎?不要把生活想得那么簡單."他并不是請不起保姆,他認為一周可以請保姆徹底打掃兩次衛生,但吃老婆做的飯才香.平時他極注意衛生,但有些挑剔.做愛時,他說:我們這樣做對嗎?請大家幫我分析一下:他現在是什么樣的心理?如何才能更好的維護我們的關系,我該如何做呢?

熱心網友

我沒離過異，不大清楚這種狀況該如何處理，如果他一定要你在家看孩子做飯洗衣做這些，讓他看看＜男才女貌＞

熱心網友

他需要的是全職太太，如果對他的要求您肯定無法接受，那么，建議您考慮與他分手。如果有可能進行說服工作（說服他改變主意），那就不妨嘗試一下。如果沒有溝通的餓可能，還是考慮分開的噩耗。

熱心網友

他有戀母情結。

熱心網友

其實可以一邊工作一邊顧及家里的呀,下班再做飯也行

熱心網友

has he ever thought for you? are you clear what you want to be, what kind of life you want to have and what kind of person you want to stay with in future? while reading what you wrote, it seemed that you are not clear about yourself and your own life。 thatpeopleliveisnotjustforbeingalive:forfood, opleshouldcertainlyhavetheirownjobandkeeptheirownsocialcontactsjustlikeyouare, vingupallofthosemeansbeinginabigriskytoliveatunstablesituationeveryday。Canyoudothatjustforamanwhodoesn'treallylikeyou,butonlyneedasimplefemaletodowhatheneeds?thisisnotarightattitudetowardslife,and you already felt uncomfortable, and will not keep a balance with him in your relationship, since you are not a cheap waitress, who doesn't have any other skills or chances to do somethings else。you really have to change your way of thinking, when you re-start a relationship。 firstlythinkaboutyourself,i。e。whatdoyouwant。。。, n'talwaysfollowhisidea,asitisyourownlife,youshouldchooseyourselfallthetime,aslongasyouhaveagoodjob。timeisrunningveryfast,youhavenotimetotakethiskindrisk(again)bygivingupyourjobtobeasimplehousewifewhichanyfemalecanreplaceall that you wrote is about what he wants, you seem having no idea on how to have a happy life with which kind of man who suits yyyyyou!!!!thereisaprincipleoflifenomatterwhereintheworld,thatisneverquityourjobifyouwantrespectasahumanandkeeptherightstodowhatyouwantandtosay'no'towhatyoudon'tlike。Losingajobtodowhatyoudon'tlikeislikelivinginhell,youshouldnottry。everybodyknowsit, reover, yourcase,heisfarawayfromlovingsomeone,andwon'tbearealmanwhenhekeepsthinkingforhimself,nooneelse, all the time。 he will never change himself, but very possible change his partner, because he always keeps his job。after thingking over what you want and your ideas on your future life, you don't have to be afraid of telling him the truth, and if he gave up you because of this, he would not be the right man for you and not worth to be loved by you。keep clear mind to be yourself。 your future happpiness is in your hand, but if you lost you job, you could not control your own life any longer。make things clear that a good relationship or a true happy family need two people devote themselves to each other, not only one person asks another to do so。 It won't work, which everybody knows, especially the divorce people (he) should know。 talking about the Korean living style is very much stupid and an old fation, since even the Korean and the Japaness are changing and giving it up。 you should not be fooled by his words, since it only shows that he is too simple minded, and doesn't know outside the world at all。 (in Europe, if a woman accepted this kind of unbelievable requirement, people would look down her and see her like an idiot。think over carefully,and then tell him you won't give up working, and hope that you both could try your efforts together to make things work if he also would like to do so。 he should repect your choice, if he wants to have relationship with you。if you want to be happy again after your first marriage, you must keep clear mind and be strong to keep self-respect and make your own decision based on what yyyyyyyyyyyou want, which is the most important thing as a woman。take care。

熱心網友

要么順從他，要么改變他，要么高開他。看樣子你是很舍不得他的，是不是?他是想要一個全職太太。

熱心網友

我是不能幫你了

熱心網友

MAN, GET A FAMILY